|Margot Ahlquist- PAWS to Talk|
Losing a family pet is really like losing a family member, your pets are your family, said our guest on PAWsitive Radio, Margot Ahlquist.
Loss is part of loving.
The loss of a family pet is often the first experience with death that children deal with. Each family member will grieve in his or her own way. Margot suggested that it is important to allow yourself time to grieve.
When our Toby Sr. passed away, the loss was a significant one. Losing our best friend, family member and my greatest teacher took a long time to move through. Part of our coping process was putting together a photo album, and a video capturing what a legacy Toby left. You can watch it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GD81iQJDp0s
|TJ- Toby Jr. on his first birthday. Look at that smile!|
Margot provided some other tips to help families cope with the loss of a pet;
- Give yourself time and space to grieve
- Seek support from others who understand
- Talk it out
- Read books
- There are pet support groups
- Be a part of a pet community (e.g. social media)
You can listen to additional tips from Margot here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/teamtoby/2013/09/25/coping-with-the-loss-of-a-pet